Today, Jay sits down with Benny Blanco, Dave Burd, and Kristin Batalucco for a first-of-its-kind conversation - three best friends building something together in real time. They talk about what that really looks like: how friendship changes when work gets involved, how marriage fits into ambition, where insecurity still shows up, and how messy it can be to create with people you genuinely love. Dave and Kristin tell the story of meeting at a bowling alley and how they almost got in their own way at the beginning. Benny opens up about what it was like to chase success for years and what shifted when he realized it wasn’t giving him what he thought it would. It’s funny, and honest, and gives you a real sense of who they are with each other, not just as collaborators, but as friends figuring life out together.With Jay's guidance they open up about commitment anxiety, the courage it takes to be emotionally direct, and the power of choosing your partner not playing games, not waiting to be chosen, but stepping forward with clarity. Kristen shares what it means to battle self-doubt while stepping into the public eye. Dave opens up about perfectionism and the tension between ambition and contentment. Benny reflects on how success once held him in a chokehold and how love reshaped his priorities. Together, they reveal that the healthiest relationships aren’t built on avoiding conflict, but on being able to argue passionately and return to love just as quickly.In this interview, you'll learn:How to Be Honest About What You Want in LoveHow to Stop Playing Dating GamesHow to Turn Conflict Into Deeper ConnectionHow to Support Your Partner’s Ambition Without CompetingHow to Work With Friends Without Ruining the FriendshipHow to Fall in Love With New Versions of Your PartnerThe strongest connections aren’t built by people who never argue, they’re built by people who know how to come back to each other after they do. Keep choosing openness. Keep choosing courage. Keep choosing each other. With Love and Gratitude,Jay ShettyJAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOXJoin 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss:00:00 Intro01:03 How Their Friendship Began07:05 Dave and Kristin’s Love Story11:37 From Dating to Marriage18:39 When Friendship Grows With Marriage20:19 Getting Married a Month Apart28:05 Loving Every Version of Each Other30:35 Launching a Show Together35:12 The Loneliness Epidemic 39:07 Working With Family and Friends42:13 How They Make Big Decisions45:27 Pre-Show Nerves and Bathroom Confessions48:18 Do They Believe in Astrology?51:10 Friends Don’t Keep Secrets01:13:28 Separating Work From Your Relationship01:20:00 Do You Talk About Me When I Leave the Room?01:23:37 If I Died, Would You Still Hang Out?Episode Resources:Website | https://www.friendskeepsecretspodcast.com/ YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@friendskeepsecrets Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/FriendsKeepSecrets Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/friendskeepsecrets TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@friendskeepsecrets X | https://x.com/FKSpodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
